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Thursday, August 4, 2011

No Dads Allowed!


Today was my 6th Prenatal Consultation with my lovely OB, Doctor Gina Macaranas of UST Hospital.  I enjoy going to her for checkups because she’s a very cheerful, positive woman who knows what she’s talking about. She’s very informative and concise, plus she answers many of my questions untiringly, and always with a sincere smile. I always go out of her clinic feeling pleased, light, and excited.

At my 6th month, I am happy to know that my baby and I are doing well: blood pressure…check. Weight gain…check. Fundal height…check. Baby’s heart beat…double check (love hearing it ;) ). There was only one downer during my consultation though. I learned that my husband can’t go inside the delivery room with me even if he does work there. He’s a nurse. Has seen pregnant women give birth. Not afraid of blood. Not squeamish at all. Chances of trauma equals 0%.

Darn. I was really counting on it. It will be my first pregnancy after all, so I was looking forward to him holding my hand while I (most possibly) scream my lungs out. It would have been nice to share the glorious moment of childbirth with him. The only chance of that happening now is if we have a Lamaze certificate to show. Fat chance of that happening. I know that in other hospitals husbands are permitted in the delivery room. Oh well.

I now draw strength from the fact that my mom was able to give birth to five beautiful girls without my dad holding her hand too. I remember her walking bravely towards the labor room during my youngest sister’s day of delivery, looking back at her other daughters with such a confident smile. Thank God for that memory! I only hope I can be half as confident as her on that anticipated day.
  

Wednesday, August 3, 2011

Party Inspiration: Got Milk? Theme

First up on our Party Productions segment is this very fresh, out of the box baby shower idea from Carrie Sellman of Half Baked - The Cake Blog. The MILKaholic Sip & See theme is deliciously perfect for the urban, posh mommy.  Just take a look at these awesome photos:




For more moo-tivational photos on this theme go to http://www.thecakeblog.com/category/real-baby-shower or http://www.hostessblog.com/2011/06/clever-modern-milkaholic-sip-see/

Get Ready to Party!


My closest college friend and block mate gave me a call this week to say that she’s throwing me a Baby Shower! Yippee! We quickly talked about the party’s theme but haven’t zeroed in on anything yet…I love themed parties. I get a thrill seeing creative concepts come to life. In honor of that love, I now declare Baby Buzz blog to have a “Party Productions” segment, which shall spotlight a variety of inspiring party themes, ideas, and resources for showers and parties, every Wednesday. This starts today! Stay tuned! 


A baby boy!

There’s cause for a celebration in the family! Bottoms, I mean, bottles up! 



My sister-in-law gave birth to a baby boy on the first week of August! Welcome to the world, baby Miles! May you be as strong and dedicated in life as your Iron Man Daddy! - Proud Uncle, Aunt and soon-to-be cousin.

Monday, July 25, 2011

Gender Determination

I mentioned how in my previous post my husband and I weren’t sure we wanted to see our baby in 3d. Well, last Friday we decided to go ahead and do it anyway!

Finding out that UST Hospital charges PHP 1,000.00 for a gender 2D determination ultrasound tipped our decision scale. Face 2 Face offered a basic 3D Scan package for the same amount. For PHP 1000.00 you can get a 10-minute ultrasound, 2 pieces of colored photos of the baby and the option to know the baby’s gender.

And so at 24 weeks pregnant, we went to Face 2 Face’s SM North branch and availed of their 3D Scan package. It was a good thing I called to inquire about the time the shop opens. I called the SM North branch. The lady on the phone was quite pleasant, answering all my question. I found out that each branch had a different schedule so be sure to call in first. According to the lady, on Fridays, her branch is open from 12nn-8pm.

My husband and I arrived at the shop a few minutes after 12. When we got there, however, the lights were still off, and the door was locked. We ate lunch at Napoli first (found at the same floor…yum ,yum) but made sure to call the shop again at around 12:30 just to check and get ahead of an anticipated line. The lady on the phone said that she just had her lunch break but that the shop was actually open (uh-huh.) So while waiting for our pizza to arrive, I quickly went back to the shop to fill out a short form and have my name enlisted. There was only one couple ahead of us –good, I thought. But the lady told us that the doctor wasn’t to arrive until 2:30 and that the couple ahead of us availed of the Gold 3D/4D Package, which meant a 30-minute ultrasound session! We were told to go back at 3:00pm for our turn. Furthermore, our photos weren’t to be ready until 4:00 pm. Luckily, my husband and I were in a cheerful mood.   
  
Fast forward to 3 pm: The shop had around 2 other pregnant women in the waiting lounge, but since we enlisted early, it only took one or two minutes for my name to be called. The ultrasound was performed in a private room by a female doctor and her assistant. My husband sat on a couch while I occupied a stretcher. In front of the stretcher was a screen that showed the baby’s image, switching from 2D to 3D view. Even if the baby was only 24 weeks and still lacked fat under the skin, it was still an adorable, amazing sight to behold. Compared to the last ultrasound image, it had grown remarkably.

On to the main event: Gender determination.
 Benedict and I were eager to see our baby and know its gender. Up until we had the ultrasound my intuition told me I was going to have a boy, so did Benedict. We had already come up with a boy’s name months ago, but had never agreed on a girl’s name up to that point. Imagine our surprise when the doctor said “babae po.” What was that? Come again? Haha. The doc showed us the baby’s little private part and true enough, she was a girl! We felt disoriented for expecting the wrong gender, but happy nonetheless. Images of pretty dresses and bowties flashed before my mind. A girl! What a blessing!

Unfortunately, after a few minutes our little girl turned her back to the camera, so the doctor couldn’t get a decent photo of her face. She told us to go out for a walk and a cold, sweet drink, and then come back after 30 minutes. This is to trigger movement to a more camera-friendly position. We followed doctor’s orders and did a quick rescan around 4:00. After that, the lady at the front desk showed us her computer screen and asked us to pick out the 2 photos we wanted printed–one photo of the baby’s face, and another photo showing its gender. There were around 9 photos to choose from. Since Benedict and I wanted different photos of the baby’s face, we got 3 photos instead (an additional photo costs Php 50.00). We were then asked to return (once again) at 6:00pm to claim our photos. Meanwhile we made sure to broadcast the good news to our family and friends via phone and wifi. Here are the photos of our dearest: 




Tuesday, July 19, 2011

To see, or not to see…Baby in 3D/4D!

I got a flyer from Face 2 Face, the Baby Ultrasound Company in SM North recently. (Excuse the wrinkles, I stash things in my bag unmethodically. A bad habit, I know.)




Having a 3D/4D sonogram seems enticing and exciting. One of my bump buddies said she’s definitely going for it since she wants to see how big her baby’s nose is, haha. I’m sure it’s going to be a joyful experience for her and her husband. And I’m pretty sure too, that most Filipinas who go through it have had the same sentiments. It’s the thrill of seeing the baby moving, and of course, who he/she looks like! Benedict and I are still up in the air on this one, though. Aside from it being an unnecessary expense, we’re not sure we want to let go of that element of surprise. We’re already set to know the baby’s gender (yippee!) so that surprise is practically in the bag. So, to see or not to see? That is the question. Ano kaya?

Meanwhile, my online research shows three companies that provide such technology in the country:

Face 2 Face, The Baby Ultrasound Company 

In My Womb

MD Care OB-Gyn Ultrasound Clinic 

Monday, July 18, 2011

Book Review: What to Expect When You're Expecting

Love, love, love this book! If you’re bound for a nine-month “bumpy” adventure, this is truly a good read. What to Expect When You’re Expecting by Dr. Heidi Murkoff is America’s Pregnancy Bible. Now in its 4th edition, it has loads of current information for new-generation parents. Its comprehensive take on pregnancy takes its readers from preconception to post-labor (including coping with pregnancy loss) and everything in between. 



It has answered tons of my own questions…including embarrassing ones, with a medically professional, yet amusing tone. Some personal questions answered:

  •  Can I get highlights in my hair? How about my monthly wax?
  •   What’s safe when it comes to sex?
  • Can I really be this emotional?
  •  Is an epidural safe?
  •  What’s up with these skin blotches?
  •  Will my body go back to normal after delivery?


Part 5 was especially appreciated by both my husband and I. (Okay, so the part's entitled “For Dads.” Still, who was gonna stop me from reading it?) ;)

Lucky for me, my sister-in-law who’s also expecting gave this book to me as a gift. (Hint, hint, to friends and family looking for a great gift for parents-to-be.) This book’s a must-buy.

P.S. Did I mention they have website with lots of helpful tools and articles too? Here's the link: http://www.whattoexpect.com/